“My only regret is that I didn’t tell enough people to fuck off”

– Anonymous

The weekend is over and a new week is already rollin. I’ve been thinking about something. I always say I don’t have any regrets but I’ve changed my mind. I have one. Do you know that feeling you get when you feel like you’ve been treated badly and you should have spoken up but you didn’t? I experienced a couple of situations like that last week and I didn’t say a single word. I just froze, my pulse increased intensely and I could feel heat spreading all over my face and my blood boiling. Only after I left the situation I came up with a million good sentences on what I should have said and where I should have drawn the line.

I hate that! I hate that I don’t speak up for myself in situations where I know I’m being treated unfairly. I don’t want to pick a fight with anyone, but I want to set my own limits for myself. I want to show me what’s ok and what’s not. Do you know what I mean?

From now on I’m going to start practicing and become better at standing up for myself. I will not remove myself from uncomfortable situations and I will find my voice and use it when I feel violated. Who’s with me?

dress hm conscious exclusive collection 2015 (gifted)// cardigan monki// shoes converse

Pictures by Dora Dalila

The time is finally here again for H&M to launch their always so perfect Conscious Exclusive Collection 2015. Last year I was one of them standing in line early in the morning to get my hands that perfect powdery pink gown. This year I was lucky to get an advance preview of the collection, and I even got to choose my favorite pieces.

This skirt is so gorgeous I almost don’t even know how to begin to describe it. It’s like a piece of art itself and the colors are so delicate and perfect. I got so inspired by the entire collection I didn’t even mind standing outside, barefoot on a dock in 2 °C.

I have one more outfit coming up from the collection but I’ll save that for later. The collection will be launched on April 16th. Have you already spotted something you like?

Pictures by Dora Dalila